Author Archives: Tommy Kiker

Do Not Neglect the Table: A Reminder to Churches and Parents

I remember wondering why I could not have the little piece of bread and the small cup of juice that my friend Noel was able to take. I did not question my parents on that Sunday morning, but later asked my mom and she explained that Noel had given his life to Jesus, and you […]

Pastoral Pitfalls: 5 Guidelines for Personal & Church Finances

Every semester when I talk to my students about the many pitfalls that ministers need to avoid, I ask them to name the most dangerous areas where a minister could make a catastrophic mistake. Inevitably the number one answer is some sort of sexual sin. As we continue the conversation, especially if I ask them […]

Stop, Drop, & Pray!

If you have walked in Christian circles for any amount of time at all it has happened to you. An individual confides in you about a prayer need in his or her life and requests that you would pray for them. How do we respond? I’ve never heard anyone say, “No, I don’t have time […]

Pastoral Pitfalls: 6 Guidelines for Relationships with Women

Except for the grace of God . . . These are the words that come to my heart and mind when I hear the story of a minister failing morally. The world seems to rejoice when this happens, while it is certain that the Christian world should grieve. The story is too often repeated; a […]